101 Ways to Build Happy,
Lasting Relationships
Dating and marriage is different than it was twenty
years ago. In today’s society, more than 50% of all marriages fail
for one reason or another. Just thinking about that makes
“commitment” seem scary. It seems that when relationships are faced
with challenges, people quit trying. Dating is more like a
marathon, trying to date as many people as possible, instead of
taking time to get to know someone at a deeper level. For married
couples, divorce is not biased. Whether married for thirty years or
eight months, the outcome can be the same.
The fact is that relationships are
hard. Things do not always go perfectly, fighting does occur, and
it takes a 100% commitment from both parties to make it a success.
Often when people break off a relationship, they feel as though
something is missing. The “spark” has gone, leaving one or both
people feeling inadequate and unfulfilled.
However,
even though the odds are not very good, healthy and
long-lasting relationships are definitely possible
and proven by
many people. Look at Paul Newman and Joanne Woodard, Danny Devito
and Rhea Perlman, or Nancy and Ronald Regan. What secrets do they
possess? The answer is that they all work hard at their
relationship. They made a decision of choosing to love their mate
rather than relying on the “warm and fuzzy” feelings, which everyone
knows will fade. By making love a choice you are making a decision
that even in the bad times, you stick it out.
Think of it like choosing a car. You pick out the make, model,
year, color, and features that you believe are best for you. After
driving your car for a couple of months, you realize that perhaps
you should have purchased a larger car, or that maybe the leather
seats would have been better, or on hot sunny days, a sunroof
would have been nice. However, it is now too late so you choose to
keep your car and make it work. It is the same for marriage. Not
everything will be perfect, and there will be major obstacles to
overcome, but you have made your decision and now
you must choose to make
it work.
There are
hundreds of things you can do to better your
relationship. To help get you headed in the right direction, we
have chosen 101 ways to build, strengthen, and enhance your
relationship.
Remember, little steps taken every day will add up to big successes.
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